What Flowers to Send for Sympathy: A Simple Guide

The right sympathy flowers depend on where they are going and how close you are to the family. This guide covers the common choices, the timing, and what to write.

Lilies, roses, or a plant?

White lilies are the most traditional funeral flower and stand for peace. White and soft-colored roses say love and respect. Carnations and chrysanthemums last a long time and fit any budget. A plant, such as a peace lily or an orchid, gives the family something to care for long after the service.

When to send

For the service, have flowers delivered to the funeral home on the day of the visitation or the morning of the funeral. To the home, send any time in the first few weeks. Many families say flowers that arrive a week or two later mean a lot, when the visitors have gone.

How much to spend

Most people spend $50 to $150 on sympathy flowers for a friend or coworker. Close family and groups often send a standing spray, which usually costs $140 to $350. See our full price guide: How Much Do Funeral Flowers Cost in Chicago?

What to write on the card

• "With deepest sympathy."

• "Thinking of you during this difficult time."

• "Holding you close in our hearts."

• "In loving memory of [name]."

Order sympathy flowers in Chicago

Angels Cheeks Florist delivers sympathy flowers to funeral homes, churches and homes across Chicago, 7 days a week. Order before 4pm for same-day delivery, or call 312-453-7309 and we will help you choose.